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Duh:
It’s, like, adults don’t get it
New Book Says Teenage Behavior Makes Sense
April 20, 2004 --
What’s wrong with these kids today?
It’s
a question American parents have been asking for decades. And
the answer always has been just out of reach.
But
Murray Milner Jr., a sociologist at the University of Virginia,
brings
our understanding much closer in this fascinating study that offers insight
into
the hearts and minds of today’s teenagers.
Milner’s book, “Freaks,
Geeks, and Cool Kids: American Teenagers, Schools, and the Culture of Consumption,” which
will be appearing in bookstores in the coming weeks, beams a powerful light
on the world of the contemporary
American teenager.
“Why
are so many teenagers obsessed with who sits with them at
lunch, the brand of clothes they wear, what parties they
are invited to, the privacy of
their
bedrooms, the intrigues of school cliques, who is dating or hooking up
with whom, what is the latest popular music?” Milner asks in his new
book. “Why
have alcohol, drug use and casual sex become widespread? Why the penchant
for caste-like divisions? Why are teenagers frequently mean and even cruel
to one
another?”
Through
extensive fieldwork by a team of researchers and reports
from high schools around the country, Milner finds that the
elaborate
social
scenes
constructed by teenagers from Anchorage, Alas., to Augusta, Ga., are
a logical response
to
the constraints of their lives. Teenagers behave the way they do, not
because of raging hormones, or poor parenting or bad schools, but because
they’re
reacting to the isolated and powerless role that American adults have
assigned them. Living in a world ruled and regulated by adults, teenagers
have few opportunities
to shape the key features of their lives. And so they exert control over
their school social scene — with a vengeance:
“Why this near obsession with status? It is because they have so little
real economic or political power. They must attend school for most of the day
and they have only very limited influence on what happens there….They do,
however, have one crucial kind of power: the power to create an informal social
world in which they evaluate one another. That is, they can and do create their
own status systems — usually based on criteria that are quite different
from those promoted by parents or teachers.
“Why
are adolescents so concerned about who ‘goes out with’ whom
and who eats with whom? It is because they intuitively know that who you associate
with intimately has a big effect on your status.”
For
his research, Milner relies on an analytical framework he
developed
for an earlier study of the Indian caste system. He finds interesting
parallels in the
logic underlying the stratification of society and the methods
people use to achieve and sustain separate social groupings. “Where
status is important, people try to avoid eating with or marrying
inferiors — as executive dining
rooms, upper-middle-class dinner parties, debutante balls, and
the marriage and eating restrictions of the Indian caste system
all indicate,” he writes.
His
findings also suggest that America’s consumer society plays an influential
role in the lives of status-conscious teenagers:
“Perhaps
the thing that American secondary education teaches most
effectively is a desire to consume. This is not primarily
accomplished via the formal curriculum,
but through the status concerns and peer groups that intensify
during adolescence. The teenage preoccupation with status
and status symbols creates inclinations
and perspectives essential to contemporary consumer capitalism.
We cannot adequately understand the contemporary world of
high school teenagers apart from the context
of consumer capitalism. Conversely, we cannot understand
the dynamics of 21st-century American capitalism if we do
not see the important role that secondary school
status systems play in stimulating consumer demand.”
Milner’s
academically rigorous study is presented in an accessible,
highly readable style. He includes excerpts from field
reports to illustrate his points,
enriching the reader’s understanding, while adding
spice to the text.
This
book is a must-read for everyone who lives and works closely
with teenagers — secondary
school principals, guidance counselors, teachers, ministers
and especially, parents. For others, it offers flashes
of insight — into our own past and our children’s
present.
The
author
The
author is professor emeritus of sociology at the University
of Virginia and a senior fellow at the
University’s Institute for Advanced Studies in Culture.
His books focus on the many faces of status, and include “Status
and Sacredness: A General Theory of Status Relations
and an Analysis of Indian Culture,” winner
of the American Sociological Association’s Distinguished
Publication Award, “Unequal
Care” and “The Illusion of Equality.”
Contact:
Charlotte Crystal, (434) 924-6858
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