CARING FOR OTHERS, PRESSURE TO CONFORM ARE TWO FACTORS INHIBITING POTENTIAL OF GIFTED GIRLS CHARLOTTESVILLE, Va., Dec. 22 -- Many young, gifted girls appear to be rejecting the "Superwoman Syndrome" and purposefully lowering their aspirations. That is one behavior of high-ability girls identified by studies at the National Research Center on the Gifted and Talented at the University of Virginia. Several common behaviors that inhibit the potential of gifted girls have been identified by educators at the center, one of four federally funded sites that researches how to identify and encourage talented children. A strong ethic of caring that causes young gifted girls to attach more importance to the desires of others rather than their own needs was identified through detailed case studies of 18 high-ability female students in the sixth, seventh and eighth grades. One girl in the study, for example, refused to participate in a selective summer enrichment program because her friend was not accepted. The value placed on caring for others can also be seen in the girls' career choices. Although well-qualified to pursue careers in science and mathematics, most indicated they would choose helping professions. Their decisions were also influenced by a lack of strong female role models in the sciences, the study shows. "The girls' pressure to conform is a major inhibitor of their success," said center director Carolyn Callahan. The study results have been published in the December/January issue of "Roper Review," a publication for parents and educators of gifted students. Most of the girls felt that in order to succeed, they had to push themselves, pulling the spotlight from others. "They viewed this as selfish. They thought it was wrong to give up caring for others because of a belief in themselves," said Callahan, a professor in U.Va.'s Curry School of Education. Because many saw their mothers attempting to be "Superwomen," juggling the demands of job, household, child care and school activities, the girls expressed interest in lifestyles they perceived as less demanding. The girls attributed their future success and happiness to being accepted and liked by others. Consequently, they usually did not want to have their talents singled out in class. Preferring to conceal their abilities, the girls often attributed their academic successes to luck. "By saying that good grades came by chance, the girls indicated that they did not feel in control of their lives--another factor limiting their potential," Callahan said. Parents can help gifted girls achieve their potential, the studies show. One of the most effective is encouraging children's problem-solving skills. "Helping children explore possible solutions to problems develops a sense of independence that can be critical to future success," Callahan said. Parents who set high expectations for their children and reinforce those standards in a constructive, loving manner can help gifted children accept their talents and use them fully. In addition, parents should ask teachers to encourage children to set high expectations. Parents can also seek out and introduce their children to strong female role models. "Having an accessible role model with whom the student can interact frequently would be a tremendous asset," Callahan said. ### December 21, 1994 FOR MORE INFORMATION, contact Callahan at (804) 924-7341, office, or (804) 823-8491, home.