HOLIDAY TIP SHEET Holiday greetings from the public information staff at the University of Virginia! Here is a sampling of stories you can use throughout the holiday season. Best wishes from all of us at University Relations for a Happy New Year! * The evergreen tree has played a symbolic role in winter holiday celebrations for millennia, even before Christians adopted the custom as part of their Christmas celebration. Roy Wagner, an expert in symbolic anthropology at U.Va., can explore winter holiday customs and symbolism in Christianity and other religions with reporters. He can be reached at (804) 924-6827. * C. Brian Kelly, a U.Va. lecturer in news writing, has written a book that was released just before the holidays: "Tales of the Clubhouse Cat (Cont.), A Christmas Tale at That!" The story, which should appeal to cat lovers, children and anyone who loves a heartwarming holiday story, follows a lonely cat on Christmas Eve as she searches for a warm place in which to give birth to her kittens. Behind her, a fox has begun to follow her blood-tinged footprints, left by paws raw from the long journey. Kelly can be reached by (804) 924-7105 or (804) 295-3559. * So what was the Star of Bethlehem, really? Charlie Tolbert, a professor of astronomy, can explore the technical side of the question, reviewing the possibilities that modern astronomers have pondered over the years -- a supernova, comet, etc. Tolbert can be reached at the office at (804) 924-7494 or at home at (804) 296-0609. * More than 3,000 U.Va. students, nearly two of every five undergraduates, contribute 110,000 hours of volunteer social work each year. Special holiday programs include Holiday Sharing, in which students and faculty contribute food and presents to 100 families throughout the community, and an effort, in collaboration with Sprint/Centel and Live Arts, to bring participants in the Big Siblings, Little Siblings and Adopt-A-Grandparent programs to a Live Arts performance of The Christmas Carol. For more information on U.Va. volunteer efforts at the holidays and throughout the year, call Cindy Fredrick, executive director of Madison House, which coordinates U.Va.'s volunteer activities, at (804) 977-7051. * The secret to enjoying trouble-free holidays with former in-laws and ex spouses is to make plans well in advance, says psychologist Robert E. Emery, who researches relationships following divorce and separation. A long-time mediator in custody battles and divorce, Emery offers practical advice on how to handle relationships after divorce -- especially during the emotional holiday season. A professor of psychology at U.Va. and author of the book, "Renegotiating Family Relationships: Divorce, Child Custody and Mediation," Emery can be reached at work at (804) 924-0671 or at home at (804) 295-7873. * Norman Rockwell-type portrayals of happy families, gathering for the holidays, may lead to feelings of loneliness, guilt or depression in those whose lives are not so rosy, says Peter Sheras, a clinical psychologist who specializes in relationships. Sheras has developed practical strategies for coping with the stress of the holidays and warding off the holiday blues. Sheras is an associate professor of education at U.Va.'s Curry School of Education. He can be reached at (804) 924-0795 or at home at (804) 973-3536. * Among the most troubling facts about domestic violence is that pregnant women are at a higher risk of being hit, slapped, kicked or otherwise abused by their partners than non-pregnant women. Six percent of pregnant women and teenagers are physically or sexually abused by their husbands or boyfriends, says U.Va. nursing professor Barbara Parker. And women are abused more frequently during holidays and highly publicized athletic events, i.e., SuperBowl games, than at any other times of the year. Parker, who studies domestic violence, can be reached at work at (804) 924-2744 until Dec. 20. Her colleague, Sally Reel, who likewise can speak on the topic, can be reached at the same work number or at home at (804) 296-0636 until Jan. 1. * As a child growing up in a black, working-class community in rural industrial Alabama in the 1950s and 60s, Deborah E. McDowell was determined to get away as soon as she could. By escaping her neighborhood called Pipe Shop, 12 miles outside of Birmingham, McDowell thought she could "permanently put the images, slights and restrictions of racial segregation far behind me, or so I naively thought." Today, one of the nation's leading scholars of African-American literature and culture, McDowell has written a passionate book, "Leaving Pipe Shop," that both laments her loss and celebrates the vibrant community of her youth. A professor of English at U.Va. and an editor of the recently published "Norton Anthology of African-American Literature," McDowell is an authority on violence, mourning and the symbols of loss in African-American culture. She can be reached at the office at (804) 924-6661 or 924-7105; or at home at (804) 979-9564. * Mainstream medicine hasn't always accepted alternative therapies. But patients are demanding a holistic approach to treatment and, especially with pain management, it seems to be working. Ann Gill Taylor, the Betty Norman Norris Professor of Nursing at U.Va.'s School of Nursing, has been working in pain management for more than two decades. She's a strong advocate of massage therapy for premature infants and has developed and taught one of only a handful of pain management courses offered nationwide. And last year, the U.Va. School of Nursing's Center for the Study of Complementary and Alternative Therapies, led by Taylor, was the only nursing school to be designated as a National Institutes of Health research center in the field and awarded a $1.1 million NIH grant. Taylor is a fellow in the American Academy of Nursing and in 1994 received the Outstanding Educator Award from the American Association of Critical Care Nurses. Taylor can be reached in her office at (804) 924-0087 or at home at (804) 293-2629. ### December 13, 1996