March 17, 1998 Contact: Raj Doshi (804) 243-1502 or rrd8q@virginia.edu FEATURE TIP SHEET Note to reporters: Student mediation is becoming increasingly popular in high schools and colleges. At James Madison University, for example, the student-run service, called Madison Mediators, was established in 1987 and has grown from handling roommate and landlord conflicts to mediating occasional conflicts between students and faculty or staff. The student leader of JMU's mediation service is Dan Taggart, who can be reached at (540) 434-0059. STUDENTS GAIN SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY, EMPOWERMENT BY SETTLING CONFLICTS THROUGH MEDIATION SERVICE The two undergraduates came into the room and sat, arms folded across their chests, facing two student mediators. Roommates, the young men who walked in had been engaging in ever escalating fights about noise and study habits. Sullenly, with faces reflecting resentment over the other's habits, they began their session with the University of Virginia's student-led mediation service. Two hours later, after drafting a written agreement pinpointing hours to be spent on stereo playing and studying, the two were smiling broadly and shaking hands. Through University Mediation Services, they had learned a valuable life-lesson: how to communicate about differences and reach a solution acceptable to both parties. "Mediation is like a pressure valve. It can relieve tensions before parties explode in anger," said Raj Doshi, student coordinator of the service, now in its second year of operation. Mediation allows students to talk through their conflicts in a non-judgmental setting. At U.Va. student mediators complete 20 hours of training and lead those involved in disputes through a five-part process. After introductions, each person tells his side of the story. Together, the opposing parties decide on which issues need to be resolved. Then, with prompting from a mediator, they engage in problem-solving, brainstorming about how to solve the conflict. Finally, the two create a written agreement that details obligations and responsibilities of each party. After a case is settled, the mediators conduct follow-up to determine that the conflict has been successfully resolved. To date, about 25 cases have been handled by University Mediation Services, according to Doshi. Most cases involve roommate disputes in which the students have become increasingly angry and defensive, unwilling to talk to each other. Other cases that have come to mediation involve landlord/tenant complaints and conflicts between and in student organizations. Students, who voluntarily bring their disputes to the mediation service, determine their own consequences, Doshi noted. "Once people go through mediation, they realize it is empowering. They learn how to listen, how to communicate and how to resolve an issue on their own terms. MORE 2 "Students worry that they will lose power if they go through mediation, but once they complete it, they realize they have gained responsibility," he said. For Doshi, a third-year student majoring in economics and mathematics, mediation has taught him valuable lessons. "It's had a profound impact on how I interact with others. I can see the importance of being open and honest and being an active listener." ### Television reporters should contact our TV News Office at (804) 924-7550. U.Va. news online: http://www.virginina.edu/topnews